
💬 When Love Feels Like Labor: Supporting an ADHD Partner Without Losing Yourself
By Shayne Swift | Swift Lyfe Coaching & Consulting ADHD is hard—and it’s even harder when you don’t understand what it’s like to live with it day after day. One of my clients, who I lovingly refer to as ADHD+, recently asked me to meet with his partner. Like many ADHDers, his neurodivergence doesn’t ride solo; it’s braided with layers of emotional dysregulation, executive dysfunction, and late-diagnosis self-doubt. His goal? Improve communication.Her feeling? Burned out.